Monday, December 29, 2008

Christmas 2008


(Katie, Rowan, Harvey, Darlene, Dennis, Addie)

This year we had the good fortune to spend Christmas with nearly all of our family members. We haven't seen Andy's sister's family for a long time. They got to meet Harvey and we got to meet Addie. It was great fun and the kids enjoyed playing with one another.

(Addie and Grandma Weisensel)


(Katie and Rowan)
On Sunday the 28th, we traveled to Nathan Cummings' home town of Black River Falls, WI. That morning we participated as Godparents for the baptism of Jacqueline Adela (Addie) Cummings. Afterward, we had a yummy brunch at Nathan's Mom's house.

(Addie, Rowan, Harvey and Katie)

(Rowan, Katie, Marissa, Harvey, Violet and Hannah)
On Saturday the 27th, we traveled to Steven's Point, WI to meet with Andy's extended family on his mom's side. There were many little kids there and they all played very nicely together. Not pictured: Grant Brazzale -elsewhere in the house, Ella and Josh Hardy in Illinois, and Lola Olivieri in Florida. The children that were there got to visit Santa and each received a gift of books and/or a stuffed sheep.

Our Family


Aunt Donna got this great photo of Harvey.

She also got this great shot of Rowan.

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Christmas Day


Grandma and Grandpa Allord were enjoying our kids antics.

Rowan is showing off her "camera smile". As she matures, she has learned how to smile even if the enthusiasm is lacking.

Harvey is having a good time communicating with Grandma.

Rowan was very good at helping open presents.

Santa brought Rowan a guitar.
She became quite interested in the guitar when she watched Daddy play guitar hero. We tried to let her play the game on the easiest setting, but it was still a little hard for her. So now she can play her own guitar at the same time as dad.

Harvey got a fire engine from Santa. He really likes it.

In the stocking were some cars.....

and a Nerf type ball.


We were all blessed to receive so many great gifts and visit with our family members from near and far. It's not over yet, we still have a Christmas/New Year's gathering with Janea's family. Look for more photos soon!

Wednesday, December 17, 2008

Random Winter Photos


Rowan helped decorate cut-out cookies today. She did a good job.

Harvey just came down from a bath with Andy. He was in a very good mood.

Poor thing still has a terrible time walking in the snow. He falls on his face a lot.


One of our goofy pictures that I took at our "Christmas card photo session" - see previous post.

Wednesday, December 10, 2008

Rare moment

This year, I tried so hard to get a good photo of my children for Christmas cards. We aren't able to take them into a professional photographer, so I tried my best to get them cooperate for me. It was not a good experience (for me).
I should have known better than to plop my kids in front of my parents moose themed Christmas tree....in a room that all kinds of breakable holiday decorations sitting out on tables.
Rowan was extremely well behaved and did a great job listening to my instructions. Harvey was not so content to listen to mom. This little boy is constantly "on the go." He sat for 1 photo by the tree. All of the rest of the tree shots, he was wiggling, pulling on his ear, or sliding out of Rowan's lap. I almost got a nice shot of Rowan kissing his head, but she pulled back to fast for my camera to catch it. We then tried all kinds of other poses. We put Rowan and Harvey on the steps....they climbed up and down and either did not look at me or they moved too fast.
I discovered that my son really puts on his "earmuffs" when he knows you want his attention. You can clap, stomp, or even scream and he will not look at you...especially when he's focused on a toy. I know he can hear. I've whispered things across the kitchen and he's heard it.
I was so frustrated when we were done shooting. I only needed one good photo and I feared that I had 30 terrible photos.
The next day, when we were back at home, I came up with a new approach. I'd try to take a photo in the morning when they are usually on their best behavior. And I would also turn on a cartoon. That usually seems to keep their attention for a few minutes. I could hopefully keep them still during that time. I was half right. Harvey only wanted to sit where he wanted to sit, not where I propped him. I ended up telling Rowan to just go to Harvey since he was not going to listen to me. She did great and I ended up getting this shot....


I did actually get a decent shot in front of the Christmas tree (after some tweaking on the computer). You'll get to see that shot in our Christmas cards this year.

Thursday, December 04, 2008

Hep B Vaccine and Newborns

I just read a blog post from one of my dearest friends and I feel compelled to share it.

~ Janea

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Hep B & Newborns

"Ok, I don't always agree with some of the stuff on his site, but he does have some good things to say, especially about the Hepatitis B vaccine. The numbers seem consistent with others I've seen, & I like the way the article reads. Check it out:

http://v.mercola.com/qa/every-pregnant-woman-needs-to-know-this-2407.aspx

(You may need to highlight, copy & paste.)

Some interesting points from the article:

"Hepatitis B is a rare, mainly blood-transmitted disease. infection that primarily affects the liver and can progress into a chronic infection that can result in cirrhosis that may lead to liver cancer.

Hepatitis B is largely transmitted through exposure to bodily fluids containing the virus. There are only a few ways that you can get this infection:

-Unprotected sexual contact
-Blood transfusions
-Reuse of contaminated needles and syringes
-Vertical transmission from mother to child

Every single one of these risk factors is easily preventable without the use of vaccines. However five years ago the US government made the outrageous and inexcusable recommendation to have all infants immunized with hepatitis B vaccine."

Easily prevented. Note that it's a RECOMMENDATION, not a law. Even with the vaccines that are mandated, THERE ARE EXEMPTIONS.

"In over half the kids the immune protection lasts less than seven years which is well before these kids will need any possible benefits of the vaccine. "

Oh great. Another vaccine that will need booster shots to make protection likely. . . think about THAT. How many adults do you know who keep up on their booster shots to vaccines? Those who live the kind of at-risk lifestyle for Hep B are certainly one of the least likely groups to be up on their booster shots anyways, right? So when they are at most need of protection from the disease, they won't have it. Sounds kind of like the chicken pox vaccine to me.

Besides, if a young child is at risk for exposure to Hep B where a vaccine that's only effective for the first few years of life would be beneficial, it sounds like there are some other problems to be looking at in that situation, eh?

"Some Hepatitis B Vaccines Still Have Mercury"

Yup. This & many other vaccines are still manufactured with mercury, then the mercury is 'removed' but still leaves trace amounts. Even for the vaccines without mercury, there is still the issue of aluminum, formeldahyde, antifreeze, & other human & animal matter.

"Since there are about 4 million children born in the US every year this works out to about one child in every 200 births that develop hepatitis B. As you will see below this number is actually far lower as only 1% of these children develop serious complications or about 4 or 5 kids.

The Vaccine Adverse Event Reporting System (VAERS) reported over 2,000 total reports of adverse reactions from hepatitis B vaccine in the 0-1 age group, with over 50 deaths reported. Here is the kicker, it is well recognized that this is only about 10% of the actual cases. So if you multiply this by 10 you have 20,000 injured infants from the vaccine.

So as a result of all these immunizations physicians are harming 20,000 infants to protect 5 from serious problems."

I don't even need to say anything about that. The numbers speak for themselves.

Did you know that when a baby is born in the hospital, the typical routine includes your baby receiving this Hep. B vaccine, an injection of Vitamin K (for blood clotting, which of course comes with risks & is very rarely warranted), and ointment in their eyes (which is to protect baby against moms who have gonnorhea. Do you have an STD? Then why are they putting this stuff in your baby's eyes? It has risks too.). Often these things are done to your baby out of routine without asking your permission first.

Things you can do to protect your baby:

-Educate yourself on your options regarding vaccines along with the associated benefits & risks of your options BEFORE birth.

-If you decide to not do the Hep B vaccine or other things like the eye drops or vitamin K, let your care provider know BEFORE birth. Also bring documentation of your informed consent or refusal of these things with you to the hospital & give it to your care providers & nurses before birth.

-If you give birth in a hospital, keep your baby with you at all times. If you are unable to care for your baby immediately due to medications, anesthesia, or surgery, have your partner or other support person accompany your baby at all times to make sure that your baby does not receive these things if you choose. Otherwise, they often get so caught up in their usual routine that it's possible they'll forget you don't want those things.

-If you do decide to vaccinate your child against Hep B or anything else that vaccines are available for, consider a delayed vaccine schedule, particularly one that does not start immediately at birth & only gives one vaccine at a time. A baby's body has enough that it'll be working hard on to adjust to at that time. Spacing out vaccines & only giving one at a time also helps identify specific causes if there are any adverse reactions.

Not all care providers will support your decision to not vaccinate or delay vaccines. If your care provider does not respect your questions, you need to decide between staying with your care provider & being pressured into doing something you don't feel is in your child's best interests, or switching care providers in order to do what you feel is safest for your child. Even if you do decide to vaccinate, this is an important discussion to have. A care provider who insists that you vaccinate or threatens you with 'the law' & doesn't discuss exemptions & options with you may be likely to not support other choices you make in the future. It's part of a healthy parent-child-care provider relationship & keeping lines of communication open.

Remember that persuasion is not communication. If you feel that your care provider is trying to persuade you to vaccinate (or not even acknowledge other options or exemptions), or if you feel you have to work hard to persuade your care provider to discuss your options or research with you, then obviously the lines of communication are not open. Communicating involves asking questions & the willingness to share resources & research.

Ok. Back to your regularly scheduled programming!

Tuesday, December 02, 2008

Trip to see Santa


Rowan had a blast in the calendar store. They happened to have an animal set-up in the front window.

She felt the baby giraffe needed to be closer to the mommy giraffe.

The grand finale.
Seriously, the kids were fine until they came within 10 feet of Santa. I spent the whole day prepping Rowan for this occasion. She seemed excited to meet him. It's the same Santa as last year. However, she was not happy to be by Santa. We only get her to stand this close to him after promising her a sucker when she was done. Harvey was already crying, so I just plopped him on Santa's lap and took out his pacifier. Santa (bless his heart) tried so hard to coax Rowan out of her shell. He let mommy sit in his big red chair with Rowan to get used to the idea. He let Rowan see his stuffed animals, but to no avail.
This was the best of 3 shots that were taken.
Luckily, there was no one else waiting in line.
When I got to see the final shot, I laughed but I also felt so sad at the same time.

Monday, December 01, 2008

Monday, November 24, 2008

Good Timing


Our deck yesterday.


Our deck today.


It was a good thing we did some final yard clean up and took down the gazebo fabric.

Sunday, November 23, 2008

Fall Clean-up and Fun


Today we tried to do another leaf removal. This will make the third day (not in a row). Andy created quite a large pile and played with Rowan. She had a good time, but did not like it when he buried himself completely. She cried because she couldn't see Daddy.

Enjoying the moment.

We got a lot more weeds and debris picked up too. Finally, our deck is cleaned off. No more toys, potted plants....even the fabric on the gazebo was taken off and stored. While taking down the canvas, Andy discovered about 100 hornets in the folds of the fabric. Some were really big but they were all very slow. I think they all got stomped. I'm glad I didn't have the job of taking down the canvas!

Harvey still loves to sit with Daddy and watch some shows on TV.

This happened to be a night where we all watched a "Rock Band" competition. Rowan danced along to the pretend bands.

Happy Birthday Rowan and Andy


This October, Rowan celebrated her 3rd birthday and Andy celebrated his 32 birthday. We had family over at our house. The kids were very excited to see their grandparents and cousins again.


Rowan got a bean bag from her mom and dad. She loves it and has quite a lot of fun playing with it and sitting in it. It has become a hit with Harvey too. I guess I know what to get him for Christmas now.

Rowan and Dad got a Backyardigans cake this year. They each got to blow out candles on their sides of the cake. The Backyardigans is one of Rowan's favorite shows.

Another great gift was given by Dad. Rowan looooves to play with her Play Doh!

Miss Rowan with all of her gifts.

Since there wasn't a particular theme for this birthday party, Rowan ended up with a Backyardigans cake & balloon, Hello Kitty dinnerware, and Dora the Explorer stickers/tattoos. The guys got to use pirate dinnerware. It was a great opportunity for mom to use up the party supplies she had accumulated over the past couple years.
Rowan would like to thank everyone that helped to make her birthday so special. She got many great gifts and can't wait to turn 4!

*Sorry the photos took a while to post. I needed to obtain them from my parents and then scan them in 2 at a time.

Thursday, November 13, 2008

Happy 4th Anniversary!


On this day, 4 years ago, Andy and I got married.

It's interesting to see what all we've been through in just 4 years. Andy's employment faced challenges and we have had the birthing experience of 2 children. Upon entering year 4, we are already preparing for baby number 3. Needless to say, we've been keeping busy since we said our vows.
Who knows what fate will present us with. All I know is that I've enjoyed standing next to Andy - facing each day together.

Tuesday, November 11, 2008

Yearbook Photos


I have been having quite a lot of fun at the site www.yearbookyourself.com
Check out all the fun photos I've created!


I kind of think I look like my mom in this picture.




This is my dad if he would time travel back to 1976. Lookin' good Dad!

Donna circa 2000

Donna circa 1982

Donna circa 1966

Donna circa 1962

And last, but not least, my studly husband...had he been in high school 1976. Jack must have started a fashion trend as it looks like Andy copied his hairstyle!